Would you give them the keys to your nervous system?

Being in a relationship means giving someone direct access to your nervous system. You give your time... and your heart... AND your inner regulation. In the beginning, it’s easy to romanticize. But once the masks fall away and the relationship gets real… does it still feel like it deeply honors you to keep this person that close? And do they fully consent to loving the whole, real, vulnerable you? You get to choose who you give that access to. And if you’re not sure what you need to give full-body, soul-level consent… Let’s figure that out together.


If this resonates, I’d love to get together with you for a free one-hour consultation.

We take everything that feels sticky, frustrating, and confusing — and turn it into self-confidence, worthiness, and a clear plan of action.

We’ll uncover the exact beliefs and patterns keeping you playing small, and connect your big vision with practical next steps — so you leave with both clarity and confidence that your soft nervous system can thrive in a life you love.

Natalie Burtenshaw