Why your partner’s emotional limits feel so personal

Even when we think we’re falling in love with someone new, there’s some part of us falling in love with something familiar. Let’s explore why we’re often drawn to partners who feel so comfortable, even when “home” means unresolved pain. I explain how early wounding shapes our expectations in love, and why one person can never meet every need we have. It's not your fault you have the wound. But it is your responsibility to heal it.

Natalie Burtenshaw