Do you feel pressure to be who your partner wants?

What if love didn’t mean shapeshifting to keep the peace? We can see our partner’s preferences as simply requests — not rules we have to obey or fight against. You don’t need to shrink yourself to meet someone else’s expectations. You can say, “Yes, I’m willing to try that.” Or, “No, that doesn’t feel right for me.” Either way, you stay in your power.


If this resonates, I’d love to get together with you for a free one-hour consultation.

We take everything that feels sticky, frustrating, and confusing — and turn it into self-confidence, worthiness, and a clear plan of action.

We’ll uncover the exact beliefs and patterns keeping you playing small, and connect your big vision with practical next steps — so you leave with both clarity and confidence that your soft nervous system can thrive in a life you love.

Natalie Burtenshaw